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One helluva meltdown
29 hours ago
by Lost and Tired
in Autism
Gavin just had a helluva meltdown. This was by far, the worst one we have seen in about 9 months.
He dropped his sucker and instead of just asking for a new one, he chose to through a fit. I tried to defuse it before he went nuclear but it was just to late. He completely lost it and was screaming like someone was ripping his finger nails off or something.
This lasted for a solid 20 minutes. Then, as quickly as it began, it ended.
Now he’s acting as if nothing had happened. That is one of the most frustrating things for me. The moment that Gavin ends the meltdown, he moves on. Everyone else is still trying to process what just happened and Gavin just picks up and moves on as if the meltdown never happened.
We never get any type of closure or resolution and that takes its toll. Does that make sense?
Any of you wonderful people out there experience anything similar? If so, does it drive you crazy, or is it just me?
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-Lost and Tired
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Learning the hard way
114 hours ago
by Lost and Tired
in Autism
Sometimes lessons have to be learned the hard way. No matter how many times I try to explain to my kids why we do something a certain way, sometimes they just have to learn on their own.
The other day, Emmett snuck out of the house. Now, I was out with Maggie in the yard at the time. However, he let himself out and without a coat on.
It was in the 50′s out so it wasn’t that cold.
However, he refused to go back into the house. When Lizze and I both tried to get him, he ran deeper into the yard.
We explained that he’s not allowed to let himself out of the house. Did he understand that? Probably not, but it feels like the right thing to do, even if he doesn’t get it.
Anyway, we were at a standoff. Then from out of nowhere, a huge drop of water landed on his shoulder. I thinking was from melting ice in the tree.
He immediately freaked out cause he hates getting wet and he hates his clothes getting wet even more.
He ran right back into the house.
I had to laugh to myself because of that wasn’t a natural consequence, I don’t know what is.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not laughing at him but more at the situation and how it seemed to resolve itself.
You just can’t beat natural consequences.
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-Lost and Tired
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Rheumatology Take 2: The weigh in
316 hours ago
by Lost and Tired
in Autism
Elliott has been weighed, measured and had his BP and temperature taken.
Would you believe that Elliott only weighs about 6 pounds more than Emmett. Elliott will be 6 years old in about 2 weeks and Emmett is only 3 years old.
Elliott is just really tiny I guess. It’s just crazy to think that our 3 and almost 6 year old are almost the exact same size and weight.
Is that weird?
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-Lost and Tired
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Rheumatology Take 2: We have arrived
118 hours ago
by Lost and Tired
in Autism
We have arrived at the Rheumatologist located in Akron Children’s Hospital. I would like to also add that we are actually early.
Isn’t there a rule somewhere, that you can’t be given bad news when you arrived early to an appointment? Especially, being early and having to get 3 boys on the Autism Spectrum ready.
If not, then there should be. 
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-Lost and Tired
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Rheumatologist: Take 2
019 hours ago
by Lost and Tired
in Autism
The day has arrived that contains Elliott’s appointment to see the Rheumatologist. You may recall that Emmett was just there 2 days ago.
Elliott is going for a very different reason.
Elliott’s muscle tone is extremely low. The other, more pressing issue is his joints and tendons.
Elliott’s joints and tendons are extremely loose. They are causing him pain and discomfort. He is asking at risk for injury because he can’t stop himself when he falls.
Elliott has been exceedingly nervous about today. However, he seems to be okay this morning. Hopefully, today will go well and the Rheumatologist will be able to help him get OT and PT.
We still have 3 other appointments today so this will have enough to go off without a hitch.
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-Lost and Tired
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Say hello to #Autism Awareness
21 day ago
by Lost and Tired
in Autism
As many of you are aware of, the Lost and Tired family was very recently in the paper.
However, what I didn’t know at the time was that we actually made the front page. We literally almost took up the entire front page.
Since we don’t get the paper, we had no idea until my parents told me.
Lizze and I had assumed that the article would be buried somewhere in the paper and not easy to find. This was quite a surprise.
I wanted to share this with you folks. Say hello to Autism Awareness
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-Lost and Tired
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