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May 20 2013

@AkronChildrens made our Holter Monitor process quick and painless

Been having site problems again and so posts weren’t going out in time.  Sorry about that. 

I wanted to share how the installation of Gavin’s Holter Monitor went at Akron Children’s Hospital today. Let me start out by asking something.

Have I said how much I love Akron Children’s Hospital? If not, I love Akron Children’s Hospital. :-)

As you are no doubt already aware of, Gavin was at the Heart Center, located inside the William H. Considine Professional Building today.  He’s was having a Holter Monitor installed.  I joke about installed but I guess that what happened, in a sense. 

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The process was quick and painless. 

Basically, when we were called back, we were taken to a small room where Gavin was told to sit on the exam table and remove his shirt.

While Gavin engaged in awkward conversation, the tech placed 5 electrodes.  Two were on his upper chest, on either side of his sternum and the other three were located on his abdomen.

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Each electrode has a wire attached and that wire is plugged into the tiny monitoring/recording device.

The device itself is pretty small, perhaps roughly the size of a deck of cards and is inside a carrying case that is carried by Gavin, over his shoulder.

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The purpose of all of this is to get an idea of what hos heart rate and rhythm is like over a 24 hour period of time. 

We were given a paper to document what his activities were and what times they took place.  This allows them to correlate the rate and rhythm to the activities he was partaking in.

While we know that no one can actually fix the problem because it’s not actually his heart that’s the problem, we can access the level of wear and tear his cardiovascular system is experiencing.  We can get an idea of what level of activity is safest for him and his heart. 

It’s important to remember that the real issue here is his autonomic dysfunction. 

The fact that his heart rate is so elevated is secondary to the fact that his brain isn’t functioning properly. 

We might be able to tweak his cardiac meds or even start something new but to my admittedly limited knowledge, that’s probably about it.

After everything is done recording, sometime Tuesday morning, we will head back up to Akron Children’s Hospital to drop the device off.  Typically, the patient would return the device in a prepaid FedEx package but since Gavin has his cardiology appointment on Friday, we want to make sure that they have a chance to download and interpret the results prior to our appointment. 

That’s about it.  The entire process only took a few minutes.  Quick and painless is just how I like these things to go.

Gavin is tolerating things pretty well.  He says the stickers are a bit itchy but that’s it…..

I look forward to getting so useful information from this process. 

I should also thank Akron Children’s Hospital for once again taking such good care of our precious cargo.  :-)
Thank you……


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May 19 2013

More pieces to the mysterious puzzle

Lizze discovered that Gavin is losing control over his bladder.  We’re finding his clothes and they are soiled.  I’m not sure exactly when this is happening or why.

My guess is that this is tied to the autonomic dysfunction.

Bladder control can be affected by autonomic dysfunction and he has had troubles with this, even before he went to stay with Lizze’s parents.  While they never said anything about this being a problem while at their house, I can’t imagine how it wasn’t. 

I expect to hear from Gavin’s autonomic specialist at the Cleveland Clinic early this week.  I’ll be sure to let them know what we are finding. 

In the past, this has happened at night.  However, Gavin’s never had this type of problem before, so this wouldn’t be considered typical for him. 

Hopefully, we can figure something and provide him with some relief, if that’s even possible. This is really sad and I truly hope we can help him. 

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May 19 2013

It could be better but it could definitely be worse

Gavin’s been home for 2 full days now and we are already having a few issues.  Gavin’s not used to having a lot of rules.

In our house, we have to have rules because kids on the Autism Spectrum need ridged routine, firm boundaries and as much predictability as possible.

Gavin’s already getting frustrated at times because we don’t allow him to play Sonic games on his tablet. 

For many years,  Gavin was very, very into everything Sonic.  It was so bad that it interfered with everyday life.  We basically had to ban Sonic from the house because Gavin just got way, way to into it and became so incredibly intense, it wasn’t healthy. 

Since the dawn of the autonomic dysfunction, we have to be extremely careful because the level of intensity he demonstrates while playing one of these games, is a sure fire way to go into another autonomic crisis. 

The only thing else really wants to talk about is Sonic and it’s already driving me crazy. 

For the most part, he’s doing okay.  We just have a few speed bumps and a bit of attitude….

It could be better but it could definitely be worse. 

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May 17 2013

When your kid can’t just be a kid

Kids are meant to be kids.  They’re meant to be care free and full of life. When you are a special needs parent to a child with fragile health, sometimes you have to do things that you don’t like, in order to ensure their health and well being.

That’s the case for the Lost and Tired Family, with our oldest Gavin. 

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With everything that Gavin has going on and because they are so incredibly rare, there isn’t much known about the disorder’s. We don’t have a clear cut set of instructions or limitations that we should impose, in order to ensure his health and safety.

I want so badly to let Gavin just be a kid. 

I would love to be able to say to him, go be a kid. Go have fun.
Unfortunately, I can’t do that for him, at least not for right now.  Unfortunately, Gavin’s health problems dictate what he can and can’t do, instead of me as his parent.

The very sad reality is that sometimes,  a kid can’t just be a kid.


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May 17 2013

Operation Hope: Enter the Holter Monitor

Gavin’s cardiologist from Akron Children’s Hospital, personally called this morning to discuss our concerns about Gavin current heart rate issues.

I explained what was going on and what I was worried about. 

Part of my concern is the fact that his resting heart rate has been so high for so long. 

For right now, he isn’t so much concerned about the numbers because Gavin is so young. However, we do need to closely follow him and make sure that nothing else develops as a result. 

This might sound like this isn’t a big deal. 

The reason for that is because this isn’t actually a problem with Gavin’s heart itself.  The problem is in Gavin’s brain and the way in which it’s controlling the heart.

The concern arises when we look at the wear and tear this may be having on his system. 

You may also remember that Gavin’s biological father’s side of the family has a history of aortic tears at a really young age.  Until all this stuff began happening with Gavin’s health, about two years ago, he was supposed to be checked every year.

We need to go back anyway but if nothing else, at least we can get a better idea of when and when not to worry.

With that said, on Monday morning Gavin will be at the  Akron Children’s Hospital’s heart center being fitted for a Holster Monitor.

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This will record his heart rate for a 24 hour period of time and give them a better idea of what is happening. 

I would imagine that they would want to have him do normal things, in order to get an accurate picture of what is actually happening. 

After 24 hours, we return the device and then see the doctor a few days later on Friday.

Hopefully, they have the results ready and we can figure out whether or not we need to be worried. 

Does that make sense?

It’s important to remember that this is looking not at the cause necessarily but instead the overall impact his elevated heart rate may be having on his body.

We already know the reasons behind the problem and we also know that there is nothing we can do to fix it. 

What we are trying to establish is guidelines for his heart.  We want to know when we need to worry about his heart rate and when not to be worried about.

Right now we have guidelines in place for the autonomic crises in general but should there be guidelines for both? Hopefully, we will have those answers after next Friday.  Maybe we don’t need to worry so much about how this is affecting his heart physically. 

The outcome is the same at this point regardless.

The crashing is caused by his brain and his heart is just the messenger, if that makes sense. 


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May 17 2013

Almost had Gavin in the ER this morning

Gavin woke up this morning in extreme abdominal pain. So much so that we called both boys off and we walking out the door to head to the ER at Akron Children’s Hospital.

Elliott and Emmett were going to my Mom’s while we were on the way up.

Before welcomed leave however, Gavin began to feel better.

The reason I was freaking out is because Gavin was totally freaking out.  He was doubled over and screaming. While Gavin has a pension for the performing arts, mainly drama, he did seek to be faking anything.

This also had Elliott stressing out as well, in a pretty big way and in the moment, I wasn’t going to even try to make him go to school.  Plus, we were going to be leaving before school started.

Right now, Lizze is in bed sleeping, I’m working and trying to stay awake.

Gavin’s taking it easy and the boys have settled down a little bit.

I’m so exhausted right now and I cam barely keep my eyes open.  I’ve got a call into Gavin’s cardiologist about the cardiovascular side of things.

In the meantime, he hooked up to my heart rate monitor and I cam monitor his heart rate, in real time from my phone.  I get alerts whenever it goes about 145/bpm…

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May 16 2013

Worried about Gavin

We are supposed to be taking Gavin to the dentist this afternoon.  I actually pulled him out of school after my meeting because it didn’t make sense to go back to get him in a little while.  Plus we have to travel out of town to go to the boys dentist. 

Anyway, I noticed right away that Gavin is off today. 

I don’t mean off like poorly behaved.  I mean off as in something isn’t right and Lizze and I are both concerned. 

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Gavin’s pretty wobbly today,  meaning he’s having a hard time with his balance. He also seems a bit disoriented as well.  He’s saying things that aren’t making any sense. 

I don’t know what to do. 

The dentist is just a check up, nothing major but he’s missed the last few appointments for health related reasons.

I’m honestly afraid to put him in the car.

Overreacting is something that I don’t want to do but at the same time, I don’t know that there is anything going on with Gavin that we could overreact to. 

If I stick him in the car for a longer trip like this, we could end up in the ER.  On the other hand, it could go just fine.

There’s simply no way to know for sure. No way to know what the right thing to do is, without erring on the side of caution.  

When there are no instructions and absolutely no clear cut right or wrong answer, what am I supposed to do.


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