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May 24 2013

Technology hates me this week :-(

This site is really fighting me anymore.  It’s like the powers that be are conspiring to make things as difficult as humanly possible.

In the last year, I’ve had to change servers twice and it looks like I need to do so once again.  :-(

Our internet was shut off earlier this week because we are of course behind.  I got it turned back on for a few days but the clocks ticking. 

T-Mobile is upgrading all the towers in my area to LTE and so until it’s done, all I get is 2G. That’s sooooo 2003, at least I’m pretty sure it was 2003ish

As most of you know, I use my phone to do most of my writing and my Galaxy Note 2 has taken a dump on me.  This is actually the second one in the last month that has bit the dust. 

I received my replacement today from T-Mobile and as you can see in the pictures, it’s going back and will now make number 3. :-(

Unfortunately, they are on backorder again so it will likely be the end of next week before we can try again.
I was really disappointed to find what appears to be boogers smeared all over the screen.  It’s disgusting and even if I cleaned it off, I don’t watch that touching my face.

While I’m also disappointed that T-Mobile wouldn’t replace my third bad referb with a new phone, they were still great about taking care of the problems and even credited my account, without me asking them to.

I have another week to make my phone limp along until my replacement gets here.

I’ll tell ya what, sometimes running this site seems a bit more headache than it’s worth.  On the positive side, Lost and Tired is still doing very well and continues to grow each month. 

I have all of you thank for that. :-)

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May 24 2013

Just a quick and important update

I wanted to let everyone know that Gavin’s appointment with his cardiologist went really, really well.  His hearts in good shape and that’s a really good thing. 

Later on, I’ll explain in more detail. 

Right now, I’m exhausted and Lizze is in really bad shape.  When things settle a bit, I’ll try and catch everyone up…..

Thanks :-)


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May 24 2013

Who has #Autism and Potty Training Questions?

 

 #Autism and Potty Training

 

I’m quite frequently asked about secrets, tips and tricks to how I got my 3 boys with Autism potty trained.
I usually answer with something like this: “In a word, patience. It takes lots, and lots of patience. However, in truth, my boys were pretty easy, so I’m not the best person to ask.”

Potty training is something that is not always easy, especially for parents of kids on the Autism Spectrum and the kids themselves. There are many things that can make this process very difficult.
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For example, sensory processing issues, developmental status, stress, anxiety and even some good old fashion stubbornness, can all play a role in making potty training an uphill battle for some families. 

I think that it would be very helpful to begin a dialog about these challenges.

There are so many parents out there trying desperately to help their son or daughter on the Autism Spectrum learn to use the potty and they could use our help.

With that said, let’s begin this conversation by sharing your personal experience with potty training your child with Autism. Please share any tips, tricks or secrets to success that you may have found beneficial to you and your family.

 

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May 24 2013

We’ve arrived @AkronChildrens Heart Center 05/24/2013

We have made it to our appointment, without incident.  :-)
Right after getting on the freeway, Gavin’s heart rate kept bouncing between the low 60′s and the low 120′s. This made us nervous because that means that his body isn’t coping with the car ride very well today and we need to watch him closely..

Thankfully, Gavin pulled through okay and we made it without even having to use the puke bag.  :-)

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Because we arrived early, we first stopped at the Akron Children’s Hospital Center for Allergy and Immunology to have Gavin’s records transferred to John’s Hopkins per their request. 

That was a quick and painless process and should be done soon. 

Now we’re just waiting for our turn to go back and see Dr.  Clark. 

The last time we saw Dr. Clark was this time last year when Gavin was hospitalized for his first autonomic crisis. 

Wish us luck… We’re gonna need it. 


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May 24 2013

Our 4th and final trip to @AkronChildrens this week is the most important yet

In but  a few hours, we will be making the trip to the  Akron Children’s Hospital Heart Center.  We will be meeting with Dr. Clark, one of the top pediatric cardiologists in the country. 

The subject today will be Gavin’s ongoing heart rate issues. 

Going into this, I am aware that this will be an unusual appointment because while Gavin has heart problems, they aren’t actually heart related, per say.

Let me get you up to speed so the above statement makes more sense.

One year ago this month, something began happening to Gavin that was later identified as the extremely rare form of autonomic disorder that has all but taken over his young life.

Our first run in with this was last May (2012),when Gavin was hospitalized for 4 days (if I recall correctly) due to some unknown conditions.  This condition basically rendered him unconscious for a few days and caused his heart rate to soar into the 150-170 range.

His entire system was out of whack and his doctor at the time was talking about moving him to the PICU.

However, as quickly as this mysterious condition hit, it was gone and Gavin began doing much better.

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This was the very first of many, autonomic crises that he would face in the over the next year.  In that time, he was hospitalized many times for similar but in some cases, less severe symptoms and his autonomic care was transferred to the Cleveland Clinic. 

We learned that Gavin is physiologically incapable of sweating and that he indeed has marked autonomic dysfunction.  Basically, his brain doesn’t control things like heart rate, blood pressure, body temperature and other involuntary functions correctly.

This leads to Gavin’s health being extremely fragile as just about anything can trigger the next life threatening crisis. 

Autonomic dysfunction (think dysautonomia or POTS) is rare but not unheard of.  Our doctor at the Cleveland Clinic treats hundreds of kids with this disorder.  What makes Gavin so incredibly rare and extremely complex is that fact that while autonomic dysfunction isn’t all that uncommon at the Cleveland Clinic, autonomic crises are. 

In fact, Gavin is the only child to ever be seen at the Cleveland Clinic with this disorder and our specialist has only ever seen 2 other cases in his career, both outside the United States.

Complex and unknown is the only accurate ways to describe what we are up against. 

Now that we have thing in context, let me continue to explain what’s going on today at the cardiologist. 

Since the first crisis last May, Gavin’s resting heart rate has been in the 130′s almost constantly. When it does drop down to normal (say 80/bpm) he typically experiences a crisis.

If he does just about anything that requires him to move around much, his heart rate skyrockets and he becomes unstable. 

Even with the multiple cardiovascular medications he’s on, nothings lowering his heart rate.  The concern right now is ware and tear, what constitutes a danger and how can we intervene.  Basically, we have no idea what to do and right now, all we have been able to do is severely limit his activity.  His autonomic specialist has stressed just how serious and life threatening this is and that we have to be very diligent.

Basically, whenever a crisis hits, we don’t know if it will ever end. 

The reason I said this will be an unusual appointment is because while Gavin’s heart isn’t functioning the way it should, his heart isn’t the problem, it’s his brain.

I belive that most often times, when someone has rhythm or rate issues, it because something within the heart isn’t working correctly.  The cardiologist can identify this problem and address it. 

However, in Gavin’s case, everything is different and we don’t know how to address it. 

Hopefully, Dr. Clark will be able to give us some guidance and possibly even provide Gavin with relief. 

I’m nervous about this 4th trip to Akron Children’s Hospital because we already know that we can’t fix the problems within his brain.  I feel like we have very few options as Gavin’s autonomic dysfunction continues to worsen. I’m worried that his heart will be collateral damage.


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May 24 2013

OMG…… It took me two hours to get Emmett to sleep

Like the title says, OMG….. It took me two hours to get Emmett to fall asleep last night.  He had his melatonin and benadryl but still wouldn’t give in and let himself drift off to sleep.

I sat next to him and scratched his back and patted for what felt like an eternity. 

After 1 hour 50 minutes, several muscle cramps and some new back pain, he finally fell asleep. 

H-o-l-y crap, he would just not settle down tonight. This kid was literally bouncing off the walls ever since the boys came home from school today.  I’d bet my last dollar that he was just a wee bit overstimulated tonight.

He did however, let me brush his teeth without any problems tonight before bed, so that’s a pretty big victory.

I gotta ware him out today and help him burn off some of this endless energy.  :-)

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May 24 2013

Looking for Giveaway Sponsor’s

Hey Internet friends, I wanted to put out the word that I’m getting ready to begin booking new reviews and giveaways.

As a blog that focuses on all things Autism and special needs parenting, I’m trying to stay equally focused on products and technology that would benefit my readers and their families.

If you’re interested in having your product reviewed and sponsor a giveaway on this site, please shoot me an email via my Contact Me page at the top.

Having your product reviewed on this site gets it before an audience of roughly 30,000+ visitors per month and growing, with a bounce rate of under 5%.

My readers are very intelligent, family oriented people and most often members of the special needs community.

Thanks again for helping me to continue helping others. :-)

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