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Apr 27 2012

#Autism can be a pain in the butt, literally

While I was giving my riveting speech (sarcasm)  last night at Stark State College,  Lizze was home with the boys. Unfortunately, they were less than well behaved.

The highlight of the evening had to be Emmett biting Gavin on the butt.  That’s right, on the butt.

He actually broke the skin,  and he bit through all his clothes. For obvious reasons,  I don’t have a picture to share,  but pretty ugly.  You may remember about a year ago,  Emmett had bitten Gavin on the stomach and broken the skin. Gavin needed and received a tetanus shot.  So he’s okay as far as that goes…..thankfully.

That doesn’t however,  address the issue of Emmett biting again.

If Elliott had been bitten,  he would have needed a tetanus shot and that wouldn’t have been a fun experience for anyone.

Emmett moved past this behavior last year but it seems as though we are circling back around for another run….

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Oct 10 2011

Manic Monday 10/10/2011

 

Welcome to my Manic Monday.

Diapers anyone?

After a restless night’s sleep, I was only semi-ready to face another Manic Monday. Everyone has been at each others throats all morning and Emmett has been in rare form. I have no idea what’s going on with him but he has been very aggressive with Lizze and his brothers lately.

He is absolutely miserable because of his current Marshall’s Syndrome flare up. He hasn’t been dealing with much of a fever so far but his mouth is full of cold sores. These are very painful and likely the driving force behind his aggressive behavior lately. However, that doesn’t change the fact that his aggression triggers a domino effect. Emmett will lash out at Elliott and then Elliott will start to scream and that will set Gavin off as well as Emmett. Lizze is already dealing with a migraine and so this causes her even more pain.

This cycle just seems to perpetuate the insane amount of chaos that is present at this point. Emmett has also decided that he will only wear diapers now. We don’t have any left as he has been potty trained for most of 2011. However, Emmett is now boycotting his underwear. If he can’t wear a diaper than he just won’t wear anything. This freaks out the little germaphobe inside of Elliott (see: Diapers and Penis Germs). Elliott now becomes very anxious and I have to spend the rest of the day hearing about Emmett’s butt and penis germs.  It’s only 10:00am…. This is not a good sign of things to come.

The Diaper Saga/Drama Continues

I thought we were done with this diaper drama today but not even close.

Emmett has basically been screaming for about 7 hours because he wants to wear a diaper again. He is convinced that we are hiding them somewhere (which we aren’t). So he is searching the entire house, including the refrigerator. In the middle of all of this, Gavin had his first PT appointment today and Lizze was not doing well enough to be able to watch the boys or take Gavin to PT.

I had to call my mother and ask if she could take Gavin for me. She said sure, but also offered to simply watch the other boys.

I asked Emmett if he wanted to go, but if he did, he would have to wear his underwear and get dressed. The little booger looked right at me and said “fine”. He then got himself dressed without any problems.

I had tried everything today I could think of but nothing worked. I even offered to take him to the buy crickets for Toothless and that didn’t work….and that’s my go to plan on these days. Anyway, after 7 hours of this diaper dramaI’ll take what I can get.

A Million Miles An Hour

Gavin helps to put the manic in Manic Monday. He is likely, quite literally, manic. I think we need to get his Lithium levels checked again. He will not stop talking….ever. It’s driving me up a wall.

I love him to pieces but he just goes on and on…endlessly. All day long he’s been talking at a million miles an hour. It has given me a massive headache and honestly, he’s driving me crazy. He will just want into a room and start talking to you. He is completely oblivious to anyone that you may have already been talking to. Can you say impulsive?

We have been following behind Gavin and reminding him of where he’s supposed to be and what he’s supposed to be doing. I don’t know how much is memory loss or how much is simple distraction.

Gavin’s first PT session went pretty well. He just wouldn’t stop talking. I had to remind him over and over to focus on what he was being told to do. However, as I said, he did very well.

Random Craziness

In other news today, my Subway  BOGO peelers went missing.The thief was caught on camera, and as seen here.

This same thief was also caught on tape, streaking through out the house. This little deviant, seems to have a very low tolerance for other people playing video games or watching TV. He will streak through the house, on his anti-underwear campaign and shut the TV’s off, where ever he finds them in use.

If you happen to stumble across this person, do not approach. He is believed to have at least 15 hostages. We can’t afford to have any of those BOGO Subway coupons put in harms way.

I’m reasonably sure that he can smell fear a mile away, some keep your emotions in check if you cross paths and whatever you do, don’t look him in the eye.

In the video below, Emmett was on his diaper hunt. Much like the elusive snipe, one was never found. I’m looking at this in a humorous way as a means of self-preservation. I was actually quite distressed by Emmett obvious anxiety over this whole diaper…thing.

 

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Sep 26 2011

Separated Elbow

I mentioned that Emmett was in the ER again last night but never elaborated…

Emmett and I have this thing.  We play a game where we take turns getting each other’s nose,  ears ect..  I used this as a fun way for him to learn the parts of the body.  I figured that this could help him when something hurts in the sense that he could tell us where he hurts now.

So the other boys have gotten in on this and of course it’s gotten a bit out of hand. 

Anyway,  Emmett was sneaking up behind me so he could get my butt. One of the things his brothers have added to the game.  As he was about to do this I turned around and grabbed his hands.  I wanted to redirect him into something more appropriate,  like,  standing in my foot and I would walk him around. 

However,  as soon as I did this Emmett decided to be goofy and went limp.  I didn’t want him to fall so I held his hands.  Emmett loves hanging like this so he started kicking off my legs and swinging. I almost never do this because I afraid that they will get hurt or something will pop or whatever. 

Well apparently,  what I had been trying to avoid happened and Emmett popped his elbow.  He was crying and in pain.  We could touch him without him screaming.

When he was hanging by his arms wasn’t for long and its not like there was a great deal of force.  He was just goofing around.  Well because Emmett has loose joints I guess it’s easier for his to happen.

Long story short,  we got him to the ER but at some point Emmett had popped it back in himself and was feeling much better.  They called is Nurse Maids Elbow and examined that sometimes that will happen and it popps back in by itself.  So Emmett is doing fine now and this will be brought up at the next OT appointment.

Does this typically or rather is it more common in kids with these types of loose joints? COUGH couch Julia couch COUGH.   ;-)

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Aug 28 2011

The cat that poops chocolate cereal

Is it just me or does this seem wrong to you as well? 

This is a bank,  actually a cat bank. To get your money out you push a button on it’s back and its butt pops open and grants you access to your money.  In typical Emmett fashion,  he decided to store his cereal inside the cat bank,  instead of using it for money.

So all afternoon,  Emmett was reaching his hand into the cat bank’s butt and pulling out coco puffs.  Then he would eat them but only after thanking the cat for “pooping chocolate cereal”.

Cute?  Yes.  Disturbing on some level?  Yes.  One of those moments I will always remember?  Absolutely.

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Jul 13 2011

Autism and Agression

We are having major issues with aggression. Emmett is becoming much more aggressive and Lizze, Gavin and Elliott are paying a very heavy price. Not sure if the pictures so the claw marks on Gavin’s neck and Elliott’s back. Elliott was also bitten on his left……um….butt cheek. Obviously, we don’t have pictures of that. However, the bite was pretty bad, luckily it didn’t actually break the skin but it’s badly bruised.

Lizze is also being assaulted as well. She’s getting smacked and hit on a fairly regular basis. She has scratches on her face and neck. I don’t know how to address these aggressive behaviors. Part of the problem with Emmett lies in his frustration with communication or rather lack of communication.

This is one of the less than positive aspects of Autism that doesn’t get talked about enough. Look, discussing these behaviors, admitting they are happening and acknowledging that they are a problem is not a reflection on our children. Recognizing that the behavior is the problem and not the child is difficult but necessary if we are to educate the pubLiz and help them to be more Autism Aware.

The important thing to remember is that admitting this is a problem doesn’t mean we don’t love our kids. I would argue that it means we love them enough to be able to separate them from the behavior.

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Jun 02 2010

Autism and Sexuality

Gavin is really starting to struggle. He seems to have significantly regressed with no sign of slowing down. The frustrating part is that he could be playing us. He is extremely manipulative.

Lizze went to the school to pick up Gavin today and chat with the principle. While they were talking Gavin very inappropriately put his arm around Lizze and grabbed her butt (not letting go) and the laid his face in her breasts. She handle it well. They had the private parts talk again. We have to get this under control if that’s even possible. He does this type of hyper sexual thing pretty often and “no” it’s not an innocent thing. There is intent behind it.

We will have to increase our vigilance in this area.

Thank you for sharing our lives. LT

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