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Jun 23 2012

#Autism and Anxiety

Its been awhile since I have updated you on Elliott‘s current whereabouts in the land of anxiety.  To put things bluntly,  he’s lost in the the land of anxiety.

This poor kid is in absolute need of constant reassurance.  Right now he has 2 settings,  sleeping and whining/crying.

He panics all the time over things that shouldn’t bother him nearly that much.  It doesn’t help when Emmett is constantly bullying him. He doesn’t always have to physically hit Elliott to upset him.  Emmett likes to impede Elliott‘s movements.  For example,  if Elliott‘s trying to leave a room,  Emmett will block the doorway and not let him pass.  This will send Elliott into complete panic.

Then of course,  we have Gavin and his meltdowns.  They certainly aren’t helping things any. We also have the loud explosions outside recently that freak him out. The poor kid just can’t catch a break.

Literally,  every 5 minutes he’s wanting to snuggle or give me a hug. While I never mind things like that, after awhile it gets overwhelming and interferes with daily life.

Elliott has been on Risperdal for quite a few months now but I don’t think it’s working anymore.  If it is actually working,  than it means Elliott‘s anxiety is simply increasing and the dose needs changed.  However,  we  have had to switch psychiatrists and Elliott will be treated by his original pediatrician going forward.  This will be a good thing for Elliott.  We just need to make until then.

As a father,  it’s heartbreaking for me to know that one of my children is experiencing life in this manner. I can’t help but feel like I’ve let him down.

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       -Lost and Tired

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Jun 23 2012

Emmett’s birthday wish

Emmett John will be turning 4 years old this coming week.  He has one birthday wish and I thought it was a pretty amazing.  My little Emmett John doesn’t want a toy or a game for his 3DS. He doesn’t want money or candy either.

My sweet little Emmett John wants to touch a cloud.  That’s all he wants.

I don’t really even know what to say to that.  To me,  I think that’s pretty profound and quite amazing that he has decided something like that. 

Hopefully,  the morning of the 26th will bring with it fog. That way I can grant him his birthday wish….

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Apr 28 2012

#Autism, Anxiety and Risperdal: 04/28/2012

It’s been a minute since I last updated you on how Elliott was doing with his anxiety. Well, I can sum it up for you in two words, not good.

I don‘t think the Risperdal is working.  We likely need to adjust the dose.

His anxiety is through the roof.  He cries over everything anymore. It’s not like he’s being defiant,  it’s more panic or simply his body purging. I don‘t think he has any control over this, at least most of the time.  That said,  he’s driving me crazy.

He’s been waking up way to early and unable to go back to sleep.

I know Emmett’s aggressiveness isn’t helping matters either. The fact that Elliott is his main target just makes things worse for him.

He will be spending the next 3 days with Lizze’s parents while Gavin has his 48 hour VEEG. Hopefully, that will give him some time to just chill out and relax. Maybe that will be the break he needs.

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       -Lost and Tired

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Apr 28 2012

Today’s Victory: 04/28/2012

Today’s Victory is brought to you by all three Lost and Tired boys.  Typically,  I have a very difficult time getting the boys to eat their fruit or veggies.

Today the boys ate fruit salad with their dinner.  We had mango,  apples, bananas, strawberries, blueberries and raspberries. 

Even Emmett got in on eating the fruit salad.  His favorite was the mango and he ate a few pieces.

After the day I’ve had today,  this was a welcomed victory. 

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Apr 22 2012

Today’s Victory: 04/22/2012

Today’s Victory is brought to you by Emmett John.  Boy,  Emmett sure has been racking these things up :-)

Bella had been playing to aggressively with Gavin and so she was in time out.

Mean while, I was in the kitchen.  I overheard Emmett talking to Bella in the sweetest voice.  He was explaining to her that “Bella, we don’t bite.  You can give big boo boos and make Gavin feel bad”. 

I tried to record it because it was so cool,  but instead found myself hanging on his words instead. Way to go Emmett,  you made Daddy sooooooooooo proud.

On a side note,  while this is a really positive thing,  it is a bit ironic.  Emmett has been biting a lot lately as well.  I just found it interesting that he recognizes its bad for the dog to bite but it’s apparently ok for him.

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Apr 22 2012

#Autism: Pausing the chaos

I swear to God,  sometimes I feel like I’m living in the middle a professional wrestling ring.  The feature attraction is one Emmett John.  He’s the chair throwing,  stair jumping, couch diving finger biter.

I don’t know what’s going on with Emmett lately but sweet Jesus, is he a handful.

He’s actually a really sweet boy but at the same time,  he’s like a really old stick of dynamite that could go off at any moment and for any reason.

I’ve lost track of the meltdowns today.

The other boys,  especially Gavin, really try to be patient with him.  Elliott really struggles with him because he is Emmett’s primary target, in most cases.

So many times today, I wish I had a pause button for Emmett.  When he would get out of control, or cause trouble, I could simply pause him and deal with the problems when I had the energy. 

I promise that I would share this technology with all of you, if only I had it.

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Apr 22 2012

Everyday lessons: Shopping for Crickets

Most of you have met Toothless, Elliott’s bearded dragon.  Elliott lost interest a long time ago but Emmett has stepped into fill the vacancy. 

One of Emmett most favorite things in the world to do is going to the pet store and getting crickets for Toothless.

This time he did the whole thing on his own. He carried around the basket and knew right where to go.  He asked the lady working to please get him crickets. I had to say how many we wanted but he did a really good job.

He carried the basket up to the register and put them on the belt and I paid for them. He held them the whole way home and them fed them to Toothless.

I know this may not seem like much but it’s so important to help my kids build up their real life,  life skills. These everyday lessons help to foster independence and serve to build confidence and self esteem as well.

You wouldn’t believe how many  opportunities you have every single day to teach your kids things that they couldn’t learn in school.  Always,  remember to do your best to take advantage of these moments because you are your child’s most important teacher. :-)

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