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Mar 04 2012

It’s gonna be one of those days

It’s gonna be one of those days.  Emmett is really having a rough day and there isn’t anything I can do to help.  I have no idea what’s wrong.  He should be at the tail end of his flare up,  so I’m at a loss.

He’s super cranky and sooooo easily set off.

It’s one of those days,  that as a special needs parent,  I realize just how powerless I am to help my boys at times.  :-(

On a positive or rather less depressing note,  he has some crazy hair going on today.  It’s cute :-)

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Hanging there Emmett.  Things will get better. Daddy loves you :-)

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Jan 25 2012

Stealing from a special needs family: update 4

I got some news and then had to throw that news out the windows as more news followed.

Confused?  You and me both.

I spoke with the claims adjuster this morning and they now weren’t sure if the van was actually totaled.

So after having up,  I was left kinda hanging.  I mean,  I don’t know what I’m supposed to do.  If the van is to expensive to fix than now might be a good time to cut our losses. 

On the other hand,  if the van can be fixed, then the question becomes whether or not it’s worth it to fix. 

This van has been a nightmare,  literally.  It’s unreliable and unsafe.  It has been a serious money pit.  We have invested 8x more intimate repairs then we paid for the van in the first place.

I don’t know what the right thing to do is. If they total the van out,  we could be left with nothing. If the van does get fixed,  then we will have our van but be right back in the situation we were to begin with,  unreliable and unsafe.

Unfortunately,  in the end I’m not sure how much choice I have in the matter.

Take matters more confusing,  after I spoke with the claims adjuster,  I heard back from the body shop.  Since the snow has melted,  they have found more damage.  The scary part is they haven’t even moved the van,  so we have no idea if there are mechanical issues as well. 

He was going to update the estimate with the new find and let State Farm know.

Shortly after hanging up with the body shop,  I heard from the claims adjuster again. She told me that the van was repairable but barely.

I asked if she had the updated estimate and she knew nothing about it. 

So now we’re back to where we started,  knowing nothing for sure. 

State Farm is going to call the body shop and figure out what is going on.  All of this happened during a winter storm,  so the van has been covered in snow.  As the days are warming up the snow has melted away and they have a better idea of what we are dealing with in the damage category. 

It makes sense to me.  I just have no idea what to do.  Should I started looking for a new car?  If so,  the move may have to be delayed. This really sucks………..

I need an easier problem for once. One that I can actually answer and said answer,  it clear cut,  right or wrong.

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Jul 02 2011

Hanging with Grandpa

The boys went with my Dad to see Great Grandma Gene. They were doing some work around the house for her. They LOVE going to see her and we don’t get to do that nearly enough.

Apparently they stopped for ice cream on the way home. I’m glad they had a good time……..

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May 18 2011

Hanging out with Elliott

Elliott is home kinda sick again today.  He has a very LOUD, very croupy cough. It’s a bit to much for him to have while in class so we have some new cough medicine we are trying today to see if it helps. All goes well he can return in the morning on Thursday.

Lizze is asleep with Emmett and Elliott and I are building with Lego’s. I’ve been so stressed out as of late that I have been getting sick after I eat so I’m still “recovering: from breakfast. In a little bit I have to go run some errands before picking up Gavin and taking him for blood work. For now Elliott and I are making some Lego creations. :)

 

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