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Mar 13 2013

Free 16GB HD Android Tablet

UPDATE: This Giveaway is officially open to Canadian residents, unless prohibited by law.. I’ll adjust the widget when I get home thus afternoon. I’m so happy to be able to extend this to all my friends to the north. :-)

Before we get started, I want to explain why I’m doing these giveaways. These tablets are generously donated by Idolian. I’m free to give them away as I see fit. I’ve chosen the giveaway route because it seems to be the most fair. My goal is to not only provide this technology to those that need it, free of charge, but also raise Autism Awareness in the process. 

Anyone can enter (right now it’s Continental US and Canadian Residents (unless prohibited by law) ONLY because I have to pay for shipping out of pocket. At the moment I can’t afford to ship outside of the US and I’m sorry for that.) You don’t have to have Autism or be a special needs parent in order to win. 

Remember, my goal is to raise Autism Awareness and help other families.

We really owe Idolian a huge thank you because they are the only company that I know of that is willing to reach out and provide these devices to the community

 

@Lost_and_Tired Android Tablet Giveaway

Welcome to the latest and greatest giveaway from Lost and Tired. I’m honored to work with Idolian, in conjunction with millerrupp.com to make this giveaway possible. I haven’t met any other company that was willing to step up and help provide the autism community with this much needed technology. They deserve all the credit for this.

This particular giveaway is the first for the month of March and is for the 2013-02-12 09.16.04recently reviewed Idolian Mini Studio Dual Core, 8″ android tablet (See Mini Studio 8″ #Android Tablet Review). This android tablet is a direct competitor to the new iPad
Mini. The Mini Studio by Idolian, stacks up spec for spec (with the exception of the camera) with the more expensive iPad Mini.

It also has all the massive advantages that go along with the android OS as well, the biggest being customization and choice.

Now for the details of the giveaway.

First and foremost, the disclaimer:

Members of the Lost and Tired family are not eligible for this giveaway. This contest is for the continental US and Canadian Residents (unless prohibited by law) ONLY. Sorry, I can’t afford international shipping.

This giveaway is for one (1) Mini Studio 8″ android tablet by Idolian. This contest will run from 03/13/2013 - 03/22/2013. You can enter by using the form below. If for any reason you need to contact me, you can do so by clicking here.

Please note that that the winner will have 24 hours to respond to the notification email. After 24 hours I reserve the right to award the prize to the next on the list. Please check your email in the day following the end of this giveaway.

 

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Dec 22 2012

@PetSmart and @Banfield respond to my post

I wanted to let everyone know that I received a phone call to from Banfield Pet Hospital today. This was in response to my article from December 16th titled, Why we will never return to pet smart.

Earlier this week, PetSmart left a comment on this post letting me know how sorry they we’re for our loss and that I should contact Banfield directly because they are not actually part of PetSmart. The message seemed nice enough but, in my personal opinion, if Banfield operates inside the PetSmart location than one directly affects the other.

Having said that, I really appreciated PetSmart reaching out to let me know who I should be in contact with. This afternoon I received a phone call from Amber.  She is the practice manager for a couple Banfield locations.

She wanted to reach out to me personally and apologize for not only how we we’re treated but also for having to put Rogue down as well. She explained that Becky was newer and she may not have been comfortable with the whole situation and wasn’t sure what to do.

She also explained that Becky started off doing the right thing by trying to collect payment before Rogue had even been put down.  However, she went about it entirely wrong. That will be addressed. I was told that the policy is to offer to collect payment first.  This way the pet owner can spend as much time as needed with there beloved pet and simply leave when they are ready. Amber explained that the policy is to offer and certainly not demand or threaten to not continue with the procedure.

I was assured that this is not how they run things and that we should have been treated with kindness and compassion. She also said that they will be having some sensitivity training so that something like this doesn’t happen again. I was very impressed and felt the apology was very sincere and heartfelt.

To be really honest, I feel much better about the situation now and I feel good knowing that this shouldn’t happen to anyone else in the future. To take things one step further, I want to share just how far she went to make sure everything was okay. While I had Amber on the phone, I thought I would ask her if she knows anyone looking for 2 Siamese kittens. I’ll explain why in a later post.

I explained what was going on and why they needed a new home and she is going to make some calls. This is where I became very impressed. image Amber told me that Banfield will donate an entire year of well visits to whoever adopts the kittens.

This will not cover getting fixed but it does cover shots and that kind of thing, for an entire year. All I have to do is get her the person or persons information and she will take care of the rest. I thought that was really nice of her and well beyond anything that I had expected. She explained that Banfield has funds that they use for outreach and to give back to the community.

While this certainly doesn’t undo what happened that day, it certainly goes a long way towards making things right. I’m honestly very satisfied with the response I received and In truly believe that Amber was sincere in everything she said. As far as I’m concerned, this issue is over and I’m at peace with things now.

Thank you Amber for reaching out and making things right.  Thank you to everyone else for helping get the word out.  I really appreciate it. Thanks again…… RIP Rogue August 2000 – December 16th, 2012

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Dec 19 2012

Do you ever feel that you just can’t win??

Do you ever feel that you can’t win? Like, no matter what you do or how hard you try, you’re gonna lose?

I’m having one of those days today

I’ve been battling with the bank because they allowed a $1,200 check go thru when there was only $2.43 available. This is really bad but there’s not much I can do now, so freaking out, isn‘t going to help.

I’m trying to do this whole Operation Hope thing, as well as keep Gavin’s health stable.

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Gavin moving home has stirred things up, even though he’s doing well right now. Lizze didn’t sleep at all last night and is in a great deal of pain today.  Although, to her credit, she pushing through it. 

Christmas is less than a week away and I swear to God, if I had any hair left, I’d be ripping it out right now.

I’d moved this site to Blue Host because they were supposed to be the best. I’ve had more downtime since switching than I ever had previously. I was down for awhile last night and I’m pretty sure my email isn‘t working right. So if you’ve sent me an email, and I haven’t responded, that’s why.

Anyway, for me personally, I feel like I just can’t win. It feels like the cards are stacked against me and there’s little or nothing that I can do about it. 

I try to be positive but goddammit, I’m finding that harder and harder to do anymore.

Do you ever feel like you can’t win for trying?

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Dec 18 2012

I feel my sanity slowly slipping away

In stark contrast to yesterday‘s start to the day, today has been a disaster. Elliott is all over the place right now.  Emmett‘s screaming and crying and Lizze can barely move.

I feel my sanity slowly slipping away…….

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Dec 18 2012

Wanted: Parenting Advice

Lizze and I have found ourselves in a position where we aren’t sure what the right thing to do is. Normally these positions revolve around Gavin but this time it’s Elliott.

As many of you know, Elliott has aspergers and severe anxiety.  He’s been through a great deal in his life, especially in the last month or so.

This week at school is martial arts promotion and the schools annual Christmas program. Elliott wants nothing to do both either.  Promotion is actually this afternoon around 2pm. However, that conflicts with Elliott‘s weekly OT appointment.

At this point, Elliott is doesn‘t want to miss OT. He’s also dead set on not participating in the Christmas show his classroom is putting on this Thursday.

As his parent, I’m at a loss as to what we should do.

I understand what’s behind this.  He really needs OT and knows that it will help him to feel better. He’s been through a lot this past weekend and is grappling for some control and stability in his life.  Personally, I’m of the mindset to let him have it.  Lizze however, thinks he should at least go to promotion.

Part of me knows that she’s right. Promotion is a pretty big deal and it’s all about building him up. She’s absolutely right

However, we both don‘t want to make his anxiety any worse.

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He’s already struggling with the fact that we had to put my old dog Rogue down over the weekend.  She has been there all his life and now she’s not. 

This is really his first run in with loss.  Do we really want to push him?

It’s not like he’s asking to just stay home.  He wants to go to OT and that’s productive and a physical outlet. I want to give him control over his life, as does Lizze.  The question is, how much control?

As far as the Christmas show on Thursday, I honestly couldn’t care less what he does. This is something put on for the parents and he’s really freaked out by this.  Lizze and I don‘t want to force him to do something that really isn’t important in the grand scheme of things, especially if it will upset him this much. 

He told me today that he’s having a hard time remembering the words to the songs and he gets confused and embarrassed.

I’ve offered to help him learn the words as well as encouraged him to go through with it. 

However, I think that all he really wants is to be rescued from this and told that he doesn‘t have to do it.  Again, I’m of the mindset to let him make the choice.

Having said that, I don‘t know if that’s the right thing to do. 

I mean, Elliott‘s only 6 years old and lost a great deal in a short amount of time.  If he needs to make some decisions in his life, shouldn’t we let him? We’re not talking life or death decisions here. We’re talking attending events at school that have him extremely anxious. 

Of course, he’s going to have to learn to do things, even though he doesn‘t want to.  However, he has the rest of his life to do that.  We have a chance to provide him with some relief and I don‘t see a compelling reason not to give it to him.

What would you do? Have any of your kids been in a similar situation? How have you handled it? How much control do you give a 6 year old little boy?

I would really appreciate your thoughts on this. 

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Dec 18 2012

Promotion day at Summit Academy

This morning Gavin will be receiving a promotion in martial arts. In the afternoon, Elliott will be receiving his as well. It’s going to be a busy but exciting day

Gavin always looks forward to promotion, so he’s probably pretty stoked about this right now. 

Elliott on the other hand, doesn‘t want to go. He would rather go to his OT appointment instead. I’m not sure what we’re going to do. However, I think we are leaning towards canceling OT and pushing forward with promotion.

I’ll take plenty of pictures.

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Dec 16 2012

I took a trip back in time

I got a call from my Dad this morning.  He was letting me know that he thinks my old dog had a stroke last night. I got Rogue back in 2000 right before I started paramedic school.

When I met Lizze and moved out, Rogue stayed behind because they didn’t want to part with her. 
Sadly, I suspect that she will be put to rest on Monday. She’s in really bad shape and has lost control over the right side of her body over night. She basically falls over when she trys to walk and is drooling uncontrollably. 

She seems completely disoriented and has stopped eating as well.

She’s 13 years old and at this point, her quality of life is not very high. Honestly, I would suspect that she’s too old to really recovery from something like this. 

I spent some time over there this morning and reminisced about when I first brought her home from work and went for a walk down memory lane.

It’s sad because she was a big part of my life for a very long gone time and was my first dog.

You hate to say goodbye but no one ever said that doing the right thing was easy. I suppose that we will know more for sure in the morning when the vet opens.  I will say that I take comfort in the fact that she doesn’t appear to be in any pain at all.

December is turning out to be a pretty crappy month. 

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