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Mar 17 2013

My newest #Autism Awareness T-Shirt released: Starts at $10

I wanted to share with all of you my newest t-shirt design. This is focused on spreading the word about Autism Awareness Month. Aside from spreading Autism Awareness, my goal is to make these as affordable and accessible as possible.

Today’s release starts at only $10 and shares the message that “April is for Autism Awareness“.

This is one of my favorites and I hope you find it pleasing and something you would sport to show your support for Autism Awareness.

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Dec 20 2012

The last day of school for the year 2012

I just dropped Gavin and Elliott off at school for the last time this year. It was a relatively peaceful morning with the only hickup being a bit of Elliott drama.

Speaking of Elliott………

Guess who will be performing 2 songs for the Christmas special at school today? That’s right, Mr. Elliott Richard himself. 

He’s decided that he will go with this show, despite being afraid.

Words can’t express how proud of him I am. I will do my best to get video of both boys performances.  I also want ton upload Gavin‘s promotion as well. 

Stay tuned……..

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Dec 01 2012

The story of Sam and Dean

As you know, Elliott has been wanting a kitten in the worst way imaginable.  He used to have a cat and few years ago named Ducky.  We had to say goodbye to Ducky because he was very aggressive and Elliott was getting hurt. 

As much as he loved Ducky, he was equally scared of him as well.

When the whole idea of another cat came up, Lizze and I were both like oh hell no. However, after my near death experience with mouse in my bathroom last week, I had a change of heart.

Anyway,  for most of our lives together, Lizze and I have always had 3 cats and 1 or 2 dogs. 

Cleo has been an only cat for a few years and isn’t exactly the best moucer.  So I quietly began my search for a cat.  My preference has always been siamese cats.  I used to have one unto it was struck my lighting and killed a few years back.

So I found this ad in the local paper for siamese kittens and I called.

I eventually was put in contact with a very nice Amish lady, as she called herself. She is a breeder of siamese cats and had several male kittens left.  She was willing to part with them for $75 each. However I explained our situation and that we simply couldn‘t afford that.

I thanked her for her time and moved past the idea. 

About a week later I get a phone call and it’s this same Amish lady. She had talked to her family and they decided that they wanted to give us the kitten. She explained that people had helped her family before and now she wanted to help ours. 

Lizze and I decided to take her up on her offer and we all headed south, deep into beautiful Amish country. 

Upon our arrival, it was already dark. I was greater by a nice lady who took me out to the barn to show me that kitten.

When she brought out this little cage, it had not one, but two pure breed siamese kittens.
She said that I should take both of them and before I could politely decline her generous offer,  she explained her story.

Apparently, she lost her husband to a tragic farming accident.  The anniversary of his death was January 1st. She said that the whole community was there for her and her kids. She couldn‘t repay that kindness but she could instead show us kindness. She then added that her husband would want her to do this and it was a way to honor his memory.

What do you say to that?

She was very sincere and this was really important to her.

Long story short, we came home with two kittens instead of the one.  It has worked out for the best though.

We named the boys Sam and Dean after the characters in Supernatural.  The reason for that is because the smallest kitten was very protective of the bigger one, just like Dean is with his brother Sam in the show.

Elliott and Emmett are both happy, as is Lizze, despite her concerns about this.  She’s a huge cat person and hopefully she’ll find herself a bit more relaxed with the beautiful purring kittens. 

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This little guy hiding inside an old speaker is Sam.

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This is Elliott’s cat, Dean. 

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Aug 14 2012

How do you handle feeling “Lost and Tired”

I suppose the title is self-explanatory but just in case. :-)

 

So many of you have contacted me and said that Lost and Tired describes how you feel on many occasions. However, we have never really discussed how you handle feeling Lost and Tired.

When you find yourself feeling that way, what do you do?

I know that breaks are very often out the question. Is there a favorite song you listen to? Maybe a show you watch? Do you talk to someone?

I was just wondering, because I don‘t even know what to do sometimes. At times, I’m listen to music or perhaps more obviously, I blog. I’m always looking for new ideas on how to better cope with what life brings my way.

Maybe we can all help each other…….

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Jul 22 2012

End of our rope

The impact of Gavin‘s behaviors are far reaching and long lasting.  Lizze is simply incredibly stressed out. I don’t ever remember seeing her this bad.

She’s really struggling with this because she loves Gavin so much but in truth,  she’s afraid of him.

This is in many ways,  her worst nightmare come true.  She had done everything superhumanly possible to provide Gavin with love,  compassion and acceptance.  She doesn‘t want Gavin to turn out the way his biological father did,  none of us do..

There is this ever present fear that nothing is going to change his course.  The future isn’t predetermined and Gavin is still very young,  so he hold tightly to hope.  Having said that, his behaviors are scary,  for all of us,  and they continue to escalate.

We are to the point of having to call the police on our 12 year old little boy because he has become so dangerous when angered. I know how hard that is for me and I can’t imagine what that feels like to her.

I wish we just had a sign from Gavin that he gets it.  That he understands what is happening and that he wants to change his behavior and make better decisions. I wish that we could believe him when he says he’s sorry. In fact,  I wish he meant it when he says he’s sorry. I told him today that saying he’s sorry at this point doesn‘t mean anything to us.  He needs to show us that he sorry, by making better choices and doing this to his family,  several times a day.

He doesn‘t get it.  Maybe someday he will,  but right now,  it’s very clear that he doesn‘t.

Lizze can’t physically take anymore.  I’m at the end of my rope as well.  The boys are beyond stressed out and need to feel safe in their own home.

We want Gavin home but not the behaviors. 

Does that make any sense?

This was posted via WordPress for Android, courtesy of Samsung’s Galaxy S III. Please forgive any typos. I do know how to spell but auto-correct is working against me.

-Lost and Tired

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Jun 26 2012

I just want you to know

I have been really proud of myself for replying to as many of your comments as possible.  I love hearing from all of you and whole heartedly value your thoughts and opinions.

Having said that,  I discovered a flaw in the new commenting system that I’m using.  That flaw is that comments that I reply to from the wordpress app on my phone don‘t show up in the livefyre comments stream. 

They show up in the recent comments widget in the sidebar and in the wordpress dashboard but you folks won’t see them..

I just wanted you to know that I’m replying to as many of you as I can,  I’m just going to have to do not from the computer until livefyre gets fixed.

Thank you everyone for making this Site what it is.  I totally value your interactions and hope that we can continue to grow this ongoing dialog to include many more topics and people.

Thank you all so very much. Have a great night and I will see you on Wednesday.  :-)

**Thanks for reading**

       -Lost and Tired

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Jun 09 2012

The newest members of the Stark County Library

Elliott and Emmett are so excited to have their own library cards.  Lizze took them to the today and they picked out a ton of books and had a great time.

They wanted to show you all their new library cards.  They are so cute. 

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