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Sep 28 2012

Let’s talk about Depression

This seems to always be a popular topic when I bring it up. I’ve talked about this many times but have never opened up the floor and actually had a dialogue about Depression.

I thought I would share some basic facts about depression from the Mayo Clinic which is a very, very trusted source of information.

Before I get into the clinical aspects I wanted to explain my reasons for doing this.

Special needs parenting is not easy and anyone that says it is, well, is much stronger than me anyways. My concern is that Depression is much more common in the special needs community than we hear about. In fact, no one seems to ever talk about Depression, so who knows how many people are dealing with this in secret.

The truth is that it makes me sad to think that people suffer in silence, especially when it’s due to fear of judgment or ridicule. No one should ever have to suffer in silence.

There is no reason we can’t talk about Depression in an open, honest way. In fact, the only way I think we can shake off the stigma is to do just that, talk about it.

Depression is not a weakness and absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. Please don’t suffer in silence anymore. You’re not alone and there are plenty of people like you and me out there. :-)

For today’s #Autism Discussion I want to have an open and honest dialogue about Depression and how it impacts our lives. I realize that this may be a touchy subject for some but perhaps talking about it with people who understand can really help.

How does Depression affect your ability to parent your child with #Autism?

Are you concerned that you may be Depressed?

Please feel free to ask questions or even answer them. Remember that this DOES NOT CONSTITUTE MEDICAL ADVICE. We are simply sharing our own personal experience.

 

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May 16 2012

Dysautonomia: Following up from the hospital stay

Gavin in will be returning to see the neurologist in the morning.  This is an epilepsy and Dysautonomia follow up.

While he hasn’t been officially diagnosed with Dysautonomia,  we expect that to be soon.  When he was admitted 2 weeks ago, that’s what they treated him for.

Tomorrow is a follow up from the EEG and the hospital stay.  Hopefully,  it will be uneventful and quick and painless.

I’m anxious to get to Cleveland on Thursday and to get this diagnosis under way.  When we know for sure what we are dealing with,  than we will be better prepared and perhaps have a treatment as well. 

**Thanks for reading**

       -Lost and Tired

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Apr 26 2012

Infectious Disease: Looking for answers

We will be seeing the infectious disease specialist today at Akron Children’s Hospital.  The reason for this visit has to do with Emmett‘s fever disorder. 

This disorder and the horrible mouth sores that come will each flare up are out of control and not responding to the medications. 

Case in point.  Emmett is on his 3rd fever cycle in the last month.  We have never had back to back to back flare ups,  ever. We typically see about 3 weeks between these cycles. This tells us that something is not right. 

The only treatment is Prednisone. However, he can’t safely take Prednisone as often as he would need to in order to manage these cycles.

Prednisone suppresses the immune system and leaves him susceptible to things like pneumonia,  which he had a few weeks back. We’re hoping that we can find some answers and hopefully a safer treatment plan for Emmett.  Something that will reduce or eliminate these very painful flares without causing long term damage.

Wish us luck.  I will let you all know how it works out.

Thanks for all your thoughts and prayers.

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       -Lost and Tired

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Mar 15 2012

Headache Infusion: 03/15/2012

Lizze’s first headache infusion session has seen some positive results. They started her off on the meds see ended on theater time around. 

Tomorrow is the final treatment and I’m really hopeful to see continued success.

Emmett and I surprised Lizze by picking her up after the appointment.  My mom was supposed to pick her up but I called her off.  Emmett was so worried about his Mommy.  He held her hand and helped her to the van. 

He made me so friggin’ proud.  We got Lizze home and she slept till dinner. 

She’s feeling a little better and we are of course,  watching Supernatural and enjoying the quite.

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       -Lost and Tired

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Feb 05 2012

Autism Society and Autistic Self Advocacy Network Issue Joint Statement on DSM-5

The Autism Society and Autistic Self Advocacy Network speak out on the changes coming to the DSM-5 as it pertains to Autism.

I would love to hear your thoughts on this :-)

The Joint Statement of the Autism Society and Autistic Self Advocacy Network on the DSM-5 and Autism

As two national organizations committed to working to empower the autism and Autistic communities today and into the future, the Autism Society of America and the Autistic Self Advocacy Network issue the following joint statement regarding the definition of Autism Spectrum Disorder within the DSM-5.

The autism spectrum is broad and diverse, including individuals with a wide range of functional needs, strengths and challenges. The DSM-5′s criteria for the new, unified autism spectrum disorder diagnosis must be able to reflect that diversity and range of experience.

Over the course of the last 60 years, the definition of autism has evolved and expanded to reflect growing scientific and societal understanding of the condition. That expansion has resulted in improved societal understanding of the experiences of individuals on the autism spectrum and their family members. It has also led to the development of innovative service-provision, treatment and support strategies whose continued existence is imperative to improving the life experiences of individuals and families. As the DSM-5′s final release approaches and the autism and Autistic communities prepare for a unified diagnosis of ASD encompassing the broad range of different autism experiences, it is important for us to keep a few basic priorities in mind.

One of the key principles of the medical profession has always been, “First, do no harm.” As such, it is essential that the DSM-5′s criteria are structured in such a way as to ensure that those who have or would have qualified for a diagnosis under the DSM-IV maintain access to an ASD diagnosis. Contrary to assertions that ASD is over diagnosed, evidence suggests that the opposite is the case – namely, that racial and ethnic minorities, women and girls, adults and individuals from rural and low-income communities face challenges in accessing diagnosis, even where they clearly fit criteria under the DSM-IV. Furthermore, additional effort is needed to ensure that the criteria for ASD in the DSM-5 are culturally competent and accessible to under-represented groups. Addressing the needs of marginalized communities has been a consistent problem with the  DSM-IV.

Individuals receive a diagnosis for a wide variety of reasons. Evidence from research and practice supports the idea that enhancing access to diagnosis can result in substantial improvements in quality of life and more competent forms of service-provision and mental health treatment. This is particularly true for individuals receiving diagnosis later in life, who may have managed to discover coping strategies and other adaptive mechanisms which serve to mask traits of ASD prior to a diagnosis. Frequently, individuals who are diagnosed in adolescence or adulthood report that receiving a diagnosis results in improvements in the provision of existing services and mental health treatment, a conceptual framework that helps explain past experiences, greater self-understanding and informal support as well as an awareness of additional, previously unknown service options.

Some have criticized the idea of maintaining the existing, broad autism spectrum, stating that doing so takes limited resources away from those most in need. We contend that this is a misleading argument – no publicly funded resource is accessible to autistic adults and children solely on the basis of a diagnosis. Furthermore, while the fact that an individual has a diagnosis of autism spectrum disorder does not in and of itself provide access to any type of service-provision or funding, a diagnosis can be a useful contributing factor in assisting those who meet other functional eligibility criteria in accessing necessary supports, reasonable accommodations and legal protections. As such, we encourage the DSM-5 Neurodevelopmental Disorders Working Group to interpret the definition of autism spectrum disorder broadly, so as to ensure that all of those who can benefit from an ASD diagnosis have the ability to do so.

The Autism Society and Autistic Self Advocacy Network encourage other organizations and groups to join with us in forming a national coalition aimed at working on issues related to definition of the autism spectrum within the DSM-5. Community engagement and representation within the DSM-5 process itself is a critical component of ensuring accurate, scientific and research-validated diagnostic criteria. Furthermore, our community must work both before and after the finalization of the DSM-5 to conduct effective outreach and training on how to appropriately identify and diagnose all those on the autism spectrum, regardless of age, background or status in other under-represented groups.

Scott Badesch
President
Autism Society
sbadesch@autism-society.org

Ari Ne’eman
President
Autistic Self Advocacy Network
aneeman@autisticadvocacy.org

P.S. The Autism Society will continue to share its thoughts and feelings about keeping the community inclusive as more information about the revisions is known.  In the meantime, we strongly encourage people to get involved in the discussion.

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Jan 29 2012

Do you ever feel like a complete failure?

Do you ever feel like a complete failure?  I mean,  everything can’t go right all the time but to have everything go wrong….

This is one of my really honest posts where I’m just sorta spilling my guts.  I say what I need to say,  so that I can hopefully be able to walk away from it when I’m done and feel a bit lighter.

It’s no secret that things could be going better for the Lost and Tired family.

What I don’t often share is how that makes me feel. To put it bluntly,  I feel like a complete failure,  as both a father and a husband.

Maybe it’s the fact that I missed a few days of antidepressants while I was sick or maybe it’s the reality of life slapping me in the face. Either way,  I’m feeling pretty low right now.

I want so much better for my family then what I’m doing. 

We’re in a bad neighborhood,  my kids can’t play outside and our goddamm van was stolen in broad daylight,  right in front of us. As badly as we need to move,  now we have to buy a new van or rather a replacement. 

We have 3 days left on the rental and I have no idea what we are going to do.

At least half of what we get for the settlement is going to pay off the repairs we had to have done right before Christmas.

I’ve been trying to remain as positive as possible but I don’t know if I can do it anymore.

I’ll tell you something about my wife and kids,  they never complain.  They are all worried but they don’t complain..ever. In some weird way,  that almost makes it worse because it’s like they are content with what little I have been able to do.

I asked the boys today if they were happy and they said they were.  The problem is that I know how much better I need to be doing and they just don’t understand the difference.

I still have to get school figured out for Emmett John and get Elliott in to OT ASAP.

Gavin needs to get into to see the mitochondrial doctor at Akron Children’s Hospital but we are having trouble getting all the records transferred.

Lizze needs to get into the Cleveland Clinic as well for better treatment options.

I’m simply,  completely and utterly overwhelmed with every single aspect of my life right now. 

I really need to remember to take my Paxil tonight.

Alright,  I’m done venting.  I appreciate you all listening.  I just needed to get that out.  I’m not looking for anything.  I just needed to get that off my chest.  My stomach was getting upset and I don’t want to get sick again because I’m so upset that I relapse.

Thank you all for listening…

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Jan 06 2012

Are you fu*king kidding me

I was reading my friend, Jill’s blog last night. I was inspired by her expert use of colorful language while writing this. I have a ways to go in honing that skill but I hope this makes you proud Jill…. :-) I dropped a censored f-bomb :-)

Emmett did really well at the immunologist. He charmed all the nurses….as he always does.

When his tongue was examined they found many, many cold sores. He has two actually on his tongue. One is about an inch long and shaped like a football. The other is is a bit smaller, but not by much.

He also has them all over the rest of his mouth.

He’s barely eating and as a result, has lost about a pound since Wednesday night.

The prednisone is not working anymore.

I thought we were going to talk about other treatment options but I guess I was wrong.

She asked about Emmett’s joints. It was kinda funny she asked -not really though- because he has been complaining about his elbows.

I mentioned that he was screaming yesterday because his elbows were hurting again. He hadn’t hurt himself but he just kept screaming. My Dad stopped by yesterday and Emmett would allow himself to be touched because he hurt so bad.

This type of thing has occurred several times now. Once it prompted us to rake him to the Emergency Room because we thought he had dislocated his elbow.

We have been referred to the rheumatologist because immunology is concerned about rheumatoid arthritis.

Are you fu@king kidding me…. He’s 3 years old. How is that even possible? Hopefully that will turn out to be nothing………….

I documented the day with pictures and I wanted to share …….

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Emmett did amazingly well with the taking of his vitals.

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For Emmett, the appointment was absolutely worth it because they had Angry Bird stickers. It doesn’t get any cooler than that…..at least for a 3 year old obsessed with Angry Birds.  :-)

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